Sunday, June 08, 2008

whomever for obama


So can I just ask this? I am on the Obama website, and I see "Women for Obama" stuff, and "Students for Obama". I have (not on this site) seen "Blacks for Obama" stuff too.


So where is the "Men for Obama" stuff? Or the "Whites for Obama"? Oh wait. The first is sexist, the second is racist.


Why??????


Could someone help me understand this? I seriously don't get it. Why is it okay to promote one group over another is being pro- or anti- whatever you're pushing?

PC has gone too far, in my humble opinion.

Water

This bridge near my house has become a dam.


I have a love/hate relationship with water. I love being on the water, sailing, canoeing, floating, snorkeling, but I really dislike being in the water. Swimming? I float well, due to high body fat, lol, but I'm not so crazy about getting my face wet. Wading? More my style. Showers? I hate getting my face wet, and to have it "sprinkled", oh, that is the worst!





This weekend has been the best of the worst, or the worst of the best, or maybe the worst of the worst. I had to drive home through the worst rainstorm ever (that will be another post) and have been watching as the incessant rain fills my basement with water and turns my local normally calm river and stream into raging torrents.





I started thinking about water, how we cannot live without it, yet too much will destroy us. I think this is a good metaphor fort just about everything. For everything we enjoy, we must have just so much of, lest it kill us. Food? Sustains and nourishes us, yet too much leads to obesity and death. Wine? Same thing, some is great, but too much will lead to our downfall. The river that we enjoy today may turn into the deluge that is our destruction. We must always be mindful of this, and keep balance in all things.

Friday, June 06, 2008

Thoughts on the beginning of summer


Wow. I just "rediscovered" this blog. And reread all my posts, which I must admit, I enjoyed. I really love to write, but so rarely take the time! I hope I can work on that.


Today was the first really hot muggy day of summer, complete with tornado warnings and rum and tonics on the patio. When you live in a generally cool state, you don't often really feel the need for air conditioning. Today was one of the days when it would be really awesome to have it! But we live in an 82 year old home with radiator heat, and having central air installed would be about as much as a new car. I have often said we could buy a lot of window units for that. Trouble is we never do it. And until days like today become the norm rather than the exception (usually about mid-July), the sheer effort of dragging the air conditioners out of their winter storage spots in basement and attic is just not worth it. Cool baths and cold drinks before bed are much simpler solutions.


How is it that we have become so conditioned to conditioned air? When I was a child, no one had air conditioning. On hot summer nights, you flung open the windows, strategically positioned fans, slept in the buff and sweated. The adults would sit out in the yard with cold drinks, the ice making soft chinking noises over the backdrop of the crickets as the talked softly outside my window. Even the glow of the streetlights seemed somehow hot, and heat lightning would occasionally flicker in the southern sky.


I would lay in my bed, my feet covered with a sheet, staring at the ceiling and I would just know I would never fall asleep. No, never, not in that heat. The sweat beads would trickle down my chest, and I would turn the pillow over and over, vainly seeking the cool side (is there anything better than a cool pillow on a hot night?). I would count the fireflies I could see flicking on and off in the bushes in the back yard. I'd wish I was in my blue plastic pool, the grass clippings littering the surface of the slighly dingy, tepid water. I would listen to my mother brushing her teeth in the bathroom next to my room, and call her for another drink of cool water. Lying there in the dark, I was SO HOT I was NEVER going to sleep, never, ever . . . . .


And then it would be morning, the sun already hot as it tried to muscle its way through my window shade. Another sunny day, just like the one before it, another link on a golden chain of endless joyous summer. A few decades later, my summer begins like this, with the heat and humidity telling me that I will never sleep, the sweat trickling down my chest, and the prospect of another summer day ahead.


I must admit, summer is my least favorite season, but today, even with the storms, even with the hair-curling humidity, even with the hot stuffy air, I am glad summer is finally here. But I do wish we had air conditioning!

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Been awhile . . .


I guess my intentions were good, but the flesh was weak when it came to this blogging thing. Oh well. Summer is over, the crisp scent of fall fills the air, and the colors have taken on that golden glow that late September brings.

Every season is my favorite when it begins.

Sunday, January 01, 2006

New Year, New You?



Why do we seem so obsessed with changing ourselves as the old year changes to the new? Watching television during a rare free moment last week I wondered what percentage of advertising dollars spent the week between Christmas and New Year's is spent advertising weight loss or fitness. It seems like 2 out of 3 ads is for one or the other.

Yes, I hope to lose some weight this year, and get into better shape. But if I don't, I don't intend to beat myself up.

I like that word, intend. Lots better than RESOLVE. I will not make any New Year's Resolutions, but here are my New Year's Intentions.



  1. I intend to be more concerned about the people around me and how they are feeling and doing. I want to spend more time putting myself in their shoes to see their side of the situation.
  2. I intend to be more focused on my husband and his well-being. I realize that I have a true gem in him, and I need to be better about telling him that.
  3. I intend to take better care of my family. I want to be more family-centered and less self-centered.
  4. I intend to take better care of myself. I have so many self-destructive habits, I hope to eliminate them.
  5. I intend to grow spiritually, and embrace the Creator more closely.
  6. I intend to use my creative streak more often and enjoy the process, not just the product.

I hope 2006 is a fun-filled learning year, one to remember.

Thursday, December 29, 2005

What we do with lobsters


Hmmmm, what is this? Yes, you are seeing a lobster adorned with costume jewelry. Yes, a live lobster.

You see, for Christmas Eve, as long as I can remember, we have had fresh Maine lobster. And for some dark, twisted reason known to no one, we always play with the lobsters before cooking them. As a child, I staged lobster races on my grandparents' kitchen floor. The winner got boiled first. How gross is that??

My kids took this one step further. I am not sure when it began, but at some point in time, my eldest daughter began draping costumer jewelry on the lobsters rather than racing them. Decorating the lobsters became a high point of Christmas Eve. Odder still, neither she nor her brother would or will eat lobster. But their little sister, now the head lobster decorator, LOVES lobster. How barbaric to first adorn then boil and eat the critters.

Oh well, too bad for them they are so darn tasty. Not to mention fun to play with. I guess that makes up for their less than attractive appearance.

Wednesday, December 28, 2005

What I want to do now


I want to write more and eat less.

I want to have more fun and fewer drinks.

I want to stop biting my nails.

I want to create something somehow every day.

I want to have my cat's life. Food provided, frequent naps and lots of cuddling. God it rocks to be a cat.

Phew. Christmas.


I remember Christmas from childhood. The eagerness with I approached the whole holiday. It was so exciting when we began making presents for our parents in art class, and practicing songs for the school concert. December 5th rolled around and out came the stockings, ready to be filled by St. Nicholas that night. The next morning you greeted your friends with "What did St. Nick bring you?"

I later moved to an area where there was no St. Nick, so his importance in my life dwindled until I had children of my own. Now I see Christmas through new eyes, and frankly, several versions of them.

My grown up eyes see Christmas as a chore, an expense, a lot of work for a very short period of time. There is a house to be decorated, so many people to be shopped for, foods to be cooked. Naturally it is the busiest time of my work year, so that joyous feeling I expect to have in my heart is more of a Grinchy green color, not happy at all.

Then there are my mother eyes, that rejoice in just the right gift for the right person. I love handmade gifts the best, and am so proud that I have the ability to make things that people actually enjoy receiving. I love seeing the sparkle in the eyes of family and friends alike when they open that perfect gift they always wanted or maybe never knew they wanted but now adore.

Last, my child eyes come back as I see the ornaments on the tree and wonder with juvenile curiosity what is under the tree for me. I love finding lots of little treasures to unwrap--it's the surprise that gets me every time. I am more of a kid than I think.

The trick is to keep looking through all the eyes at once and do not let one take over. Usually my grown up Grinchy eyes take over early in the season as I feel the pressure at work and realize just how much personal work I have yet to do at home. I have to push them aside. But I have to watch the mother eyes, as they tend to spend too much time obsessing over perfection and spending way too much money. And the child eyes can be selfish, a trait I try so hard to push away.

I am glad the "big" holiday is over and wish we had a national vacation week between Christmas and New Year's, just to chill out mentally & physically and get back into our normal groove.

Someday I want a job that lets me take this week off and no one even cares. Not even me.